Wednesday, November 02, 2005

Choice

Life is about choices
and ultimately its about you
coz after all its YOUR life.

Judging people is natural
but slamming people is unfair
maybe its our ammoral society now
go push the blame to someone else..

its a choice
a preference
usually a combination of both heart and mind
a simple balance
a hard to maintain balance.

some people choose to look for love
some people don't believe in love animore
some people believe the only love that would exist has to be created
ultimatly i believe its agreed it takes 2 to clap
a balance sometimes lopsided,
sometimes the balance is flung from side to side.
what do i believe?
it comes from both the heart and the mind,
the 2 combined, u noe you are in love
well i was in love,
maybe i still am...

some people choose to be achievers,
they want to make it big
they want to make a difference
go ahead, i applaud you..
coz its not easy.. there is so much to deal with.
to be a superstar
to be a buisnessman
to be the next paris hilton..
go ahead, by all means..

but what does it mean to be a simpleton?
is it necessarily bad?
is there a need to belittle people as "lazy farks"?
so sad that some people choose to think "lazy" thinkers as "people who think they are so great"..
thinkers think, therefore decide wads best..

people achieve in various areas,
be it friends, family
at work, in education..
providing for the needy, care for the environment..
all these are nothing compared to your "great cause"?
than all i can say is.. you are narrow minded
whats wrong with being "just another person"
if being "just another person" makes you happy in life, why not.
why choose the path that would make you unhappy,
if being a "someone" doesnt make you happy
don't slam others.

its a fact, the rich, well known people deal with alot
models sleep around with the powerful to get to places
paris hilton, donald trump gets slammed.
you cant even lead a normal life animore,
unless of course, thats what u want..

90% of buisnessess fail after the first year.
of that 10%, another 90% fail after the second.
xia xue, i wouldnt want to be her walking on the streets,
wonder how i would feel if some stranger called me a bitch..

its a choice. respect others for choosing,
its a right
unless you like to be forced into doing stuff.

same goes for sexuality,
its a choice

same goes for relationships,
its a choice..

everything in life that comes is a combination of choices, fate, mix and matches and a balance..
choices are made by the individual. of course the choice might be wrong, so the individual has to be open to comments, critisizm and probably learn more if he prefers to. Being open to others views is being opened minded, being stubborn is not. Knowing and understanding what other people think but still sticking to your own views is being opened minded. Though you might not be able to convince them of your own views, but hey, everybody has their preferences, put yourself in the shoes of both sides of the debate, respect that.

you can take it as it comes, deal with it when it fails..
if i didnt try, i wouldnt know
i wouldnt experience it..
that wouldnt be living

2 Comments:

Blogger DP said...

As usual, it's good reading your blog....

btw,if you feel uncomfortable meeting up for makan, i can understand.... if we never meet uo again, have a rewarding life ok?

10:04 PM  
Blogger ray said...

hey thanx..
n dun say dat.. its juz dat i've been abit bz of late and doesnt help we stay 2 ends of sg..
will meet up one day yea?

10:13 AM  

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